Work on your mentality

It doesn't matter how a man dresses, what matter is who he is on the inside. Lets look carefully at this scenario: you saw a man with torn cloths, looking very dirty and not so sound mentally, then you decided to clean him up! Buy him new cloths, shoes, give him a hair cut and have him get a nice bath. The reality is that he may be looking neat on the outside, but inside he is still that old person you saw. Why? Cos you only worked on the outside and neglected the inside. So, after sometime you'll see him just the way he was when you first met him.
It is said that one of the best gift you can gift yourself is to work on your mentality, cos your mentality is your gateway to understanding the world and also how you portray yourself for others to perceive.
Do not expect the things around you to change until you change your mentality! Life is created this way; non elastic, however we are created elastic both on the inside and outside, which is why life will stress Us to our limit, but in reality there is no limit because all we need do when life stresses us much is take a U-turn and explore or think life differently.

Courtesy: Mya&Myself